Dallas Black Theater -"Dance Africa"

Unfortunately, we were unable to take any pictures in The Majestic Theater. However, a photo truly would not have captured an ounce of the energy that was present. If you have a Black Dance Company in your town, I would definitely recommend buying tickets to Dance Africa.

The girls had been looking forward to this for months and it did not let them down. My mom went with us. There was not a very large crowd, however, the Ugandan Troop that performed was not hindered in the strength of their dance. I told Abby during the first dance to observe how the guys & girls used every part of their body. When they stomped, it was literally the loudest, strongest stomp that I had ever witnessed. I almost wept at one part strictly because of how powerful it was.

After the performance, we decided to stop and eat at The HUGE, new Bass Pro Shop...which we laughed about because the girls looked so cute in their skirts and we were going to eat in the "hunting and fishing zone"...but we had not been there yet. The girls were so excited. Besides the food being great, they have about 10 huge boats and yachts in the store that the kids can just crawl all over and have fun.

The day was great. It was another tally mark in the home school camp. In the state of Texas, homeschooling is considered a private education. The great thing about this classification is that it provides us the opportunity to attend many great performances, during the day, at a student matinee price. This might be something for you to check on in your area. For example, tickets to Dance Africa were $35-$55. When I called the dance company I told them that I was interested in bringing students to a performance and was wondering if they offered a special price. They asked me for the name of my school and I told them that I home schooled. They said that they needed to put a "name" in the computer to reserve the seats -so they used my last name and tagged Academy to it. Our tickets were $5 each and we were had the best seats in the house.

I'm a Big kid, now!!! Potty training COMPLETE!!!

Adoption & The Gospel

"Stigma is never a reason not to do something that is biblical."
-Dr. Voddie Baucham

Great Audio :
http://www.callingfortruth.org/cft/content/view/532/10/

If for some reason the link does not work...it is the Thursday, Oct 18, 2007 National Adoption Awareness Broadcast with Voddie Baaucham that you are looking for.

Contentment

I have not posted recently. I have debated as to whether or not I was going to detail all that I had been feeling over the past several weeks. I really do not want to...however, I think that it will be helpful to other people who are homeschooling or are considering homeschooling.

We have been under a lot of stress the past several months...and as a result, I have not been as focused as I should've been on "formal education." Don't get me wrong...we have set down everyday and accomplished the "list" of Math, Reading, English and maybe an "extra" every day or two...but I have been a million miles away. Very distracted.

I hit a wall about a week ago. I decided to go and interview a school. I felt like it was the right thing to do...until the night before.

I had gone in to put Abby to bed and she was talking about the "interview". As she began to talk I thought, "I really want her to be content whether she is with me or at a school." She told me that she wanted to "go to a school because she likes to carry her back pack." Which I completely understand because backpacks are my weakness. I told her that "I really wanted her heart to desire what ever God wanted for her." Then I said, "Abby, do you trust me?" and she said, "Yes...I'm just scared that you will say no." Which completely made me sad. I was on my knees beside her bed and I looked a little more closely into her eyes and I said, "I might...but I need you to trust me." When I prayed with her that night I prayed that the Lord would help her heart to be turned toward His and that she would desire what He wanted for her. I was crying while I prayed for her. I prayed that she would know that we are trying to make the right choices for her.

Well, we went to the interview...and we knew in about 5 minutes that the school was not a good fit. But more importantly, I knew that the issue was with me. I knew that I had been the one with the contentment issue. I knew that I had been the one wondering if I was doing enough or if she was going to be "ok". I knew that the stupidest thing that I could've done was to let my circumstances dictate my decision making. #1 - Why am I allowing myself to be stressed out over things that I have ABSOLUTELY NO control over? #2 - Why am I being distracted from the one thing that I do have control over? #3 - Why am I not trusting the way I should?

So...back home to tell Abby.

You know, she didn't take it as bad as I thought that she would. We actually had one of those conversations that made me say, "This is working." And today...we're back to, "Mommy, I love homeschooling!"

So, all of that to say, it can feel over whelming, and it may not be for everybody...but it is for us...today.

JDRF Walk

Today, I took the two older girls to The Juvenile Diabetes Walk. We walked for Sam Millard & Skye Matlock on the "Sam & Skye Walkers" Team. It was great! I am so glad that we had the opportunity to participate.

So...

The results are in. 58% of you feel that you would not be an effective teacher to your children. 38% of you are scared that your children will be nerds if you home school them. There you have it. None of that is scientific or researched based...just feeling and fears.

I have not blogged in a while strictly because our "readjustment" period has been rough. There have been several days when I have toyed with the idea of putting the 2 oldest in school. My third daughter is in pre-school so that would leave me and Zoe home to face the day alone. That is a very calming idea to me. Even as I sit here amidst an unmade bed, 2 piles of laundry and what feels like numerous unfinished task, I think that I could probably make a lot of "headway" if it were just me and 1 child at the house.

However, I still feel that home schooling is the best option for our family today. I have been talking alot with the girls about wisdom. I love Proverbs 1:8-10. We have been reading this in the mornings and discussing it.

"Hear, my son, your father's instruction and do not forsake your mother's teaching; Indeed, they are a graceful wreath to your head and ornaments about your neck. My son, if sinners entice you, Do not consent."

The rest of the chapter is contrasting the difference between Wisdom and Simple mindedness. This is truly on of the reasons that I love not having to rush in the mornings, because we get to discuss the Scriptures, which we consider to be Holy.

I have found myself wishing that we had a Classical School here because I DO feel that their education would be a little more "rounded".

A friend and I had a discussion today about a mom who had home schooled her kids until high school and then put them into a corporate system. (I do not think that it matters if it is public or private.) When my friend asked 'how the kids did when they were put in' the mom responded by saying, "Great! They were cheerleaders and one was voted Most Popular..." etc.

My friend said that that bothered her because the mom spoke only of "social" accomplishments that the kids had made.

Now, before everyone slams her for being frustrated with the mom, let me explain. The reasons for home schooling are as diverse as the people who home school. One may home school for educational reasons, one for socio-economic reasons and another for heart reasons.

I choose the latter. The main reason, not the only reason,and I know that I am coming out of the closet here...is so I can "shepherd their hearts". Now, I know that many of my friends that read this blog are not Christians and might think that I am being a "retreatist"...I feel, however, that I am attempting to be consistent. Consistent with what I would define my primary role as a parent-Christian to be. This is one reason why I am not a fan of prayer in school. I do not want anyone, with a differing view of Christ, indoctrinating my child. It is my right, my role and my responsibility to train my kids in worship. I do not want my kids to grow up and be "moral behaviorist". I want them to live as true worshipers. I feel compelled to say that I, personally, do not believe that the only way to "get to this end" is through Home Schooling. A person's heart is with them wherever they go and I have met some home schooled kids whose hearts were far away from the Lord. Likewise, I have met some kids in the public & private "arenas" whose hearts are truly obedient. So, with that said, I think that right now, I am still on the same track...next year, we'll see.

I am wondering, and I welcome the input, even from people who do not share my views, if...what is best for one child is necessarily what is best for the whole family?

If I think that Home Schooling is what is best for my children then is that what is best for our family as a whole? What if there is a mom who loves homeschooling, does a good job at it, yet is neglectful with the house. Say- she can't stay on top of the laundry, dishes and kid's bedrooms but the kids have had a great day doing school. Maybe she has a difficult time getting to the grocery store because there is a massive chunk of time being eaten away with home schooling.

I know that different people have opposing ideas about roles and responsibilities in the home...I would love to hear some voices on this.

Life as we know it...

So...these pics are out of order...but here's the story -

Zoe started Mother's Day Out...She was not a happy camper! However, the teacher called me at 10 am and said that they had been talking about shapes and Zoe was walking around saying, "white octagon". She had a great time and made several new friends.

Lucy Grace has started wearing Big Girl panties and is very proud! She hasn't made it all day yet...but is doing really well thus far.

The day ended with Zoe in her bed and Lucy Grace in the bath. I went into the kitchen and noticed that it was very quiet. Well, Zoe decided that she wanted a bath, too.

Homeshooling is starting to get back on track. As you know, it takes a good month to establish a routine...and we are about to begin week 3. Greg started Latin & Philosophy with Abby last night and she LOVED it! She thinks that Philosophy is fun and she kept saying, "Ask me another question." This Philosophy course is designed for K-3rd graders. I'll find the link for it and post it soon.

Ellie is writing her numbers 1-10. Her handwriting is really good for her age. She is practicing her letters diligently and seems to really like school. She loves Math and numbers. She and Abby are going to start memorizing a poem together this week...that should be interesting.

Abby turns 8 tomorrow. WOW! One more set of "that" and she'll be driving. I cannot believe how fast it has come. I was telling my mom tonight that I distinctly remember my 8th birthday. She & my Uncle David took me & my brother, Kyle, to Six Flags. The coolest part though, was that Chuck Berry was performing. That is a great memory. They didn't tell me that we were going to Six Flags until we were turning into the parking lot. I remember my mom turning around and smiling at me from the passenger's seat.

One day my daughter will look back on her 8th birthday...I hope she feels what I feel. I hope that she knows that she is not a burden but a joy. I hope that she remembers the strawberry cake with an "8" made from mini-marshmallows...and smiles. I hope that she thinks about High School Musical and shakes her head. I hope that she remembers skating, her friends, American Girls &...Mom.